You see what you wanna see and not what is in front of you. But either way everyone is right in his/her mind. Everyone has a different view and gets other emotions out of happened situations. Does it make us a bad person? No, of course not. It is not a crime to think or even to overthink. In fact it is in our nature to be skeptic. Then again how would you explain the ideas, innovations and experiments great men and women had in the last centuries? Even when 1 million said the world is flat there was one person who said otherwise.
Everything starts within your mind. Change your perception and you will change your life.